Thursday, August 20, 2009

what has happened?




ok so it has been a really long time since i have posted anything! sorry ! but here are a few pictures i have taken recently! as everyone knows i am pregnant .. due December 8! i am bout 24 weeks! other than having a yucky cold i am doing well! CJ is doing great too. he is a rough and tough little two year old who has way too much energy! and its getting harder and harder to chase him around! he talks all the time now and i have to say its quite fun! the things a two year old will say to you are so funny! Chris is doing ok.. he was sick yesterday with some bug.. i hope that he will feel a little better today so that he can go to work! we always need that money ! lol
my car broke a couple of days ago. i took the key out of the ignition and my car was still running so i had to call my father-in - law to come disconnect it from the battery! i am hoping that maybe papa joe knows how to fix it?... but we are still looking for a family car! we would like to have 1 dependable car for me and the kids to ride in! i am so worried about my car just dieing and i might have a two year old and a new born on the side of the road in hot Alabama weather! that would be horrifying! well i guess that is about all for now! i hope to be able to post more soon

Monday, June 8, 2009

bit of a scare

so i went to the Dr. today for a normal checkup.. everything was going fine until my doctor couldn't find the heartbeat!!! it sort of freaked me out at first but i had a calm feeling about it. so he ordered a ultrasound and when i got there.. no trouble! baby was there, healthy and with a heart beat of 157 ! i am told that is pretty high... but yeah the baby is measuring right and everything! they just told me that i have an anterior placenta this time which just means basically that the placenta is closer to the top of the skin instead of being behind the baby... which is why he couldn't hear it! so yeah kinda scary but it turned out well!

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

MY LITTLE 2 YEAR OLD!!!!!!






CJ turned 2 today! he got a cars cake that he completely demolished!
we had a great day just hanging out at the house!we watched some home videos of when he was like 1 and under! it was great! he loved seeing his self on the tv! and for dinner .. we had his favorite! PIZZA! hehe!! i enjoyed the day and so did we. I cant believe my little man is 2 already! just doesn't seem right .. i swear he was just born!

Monday, April 13, 2009

THE NOT SO NEW NEWS

So for everyone who doesn't know we found out the other day that we are pregnant again! we are excited but scared because we will have two.... but my estimated due date is DEC. 8 as of right now! CJ likes the idea so far. when i ask him if he wants a little bro or sis he just smiles and says "i do" lol he is so funny! hehe

Thursday, March 26, 2009

WOW

WOW


How to Break a World of Warcraft Addiction


from wikiHow - The How to Manual That You Can Edit

The definition of "addiction" is the state of being enslaved by something that is psychologically or physically habit-forming(such as narcotics or gambling), to such an extent that to discontinue the habit or practice can lead to severe trauma. In other words, you love something so much that you have developed a habit of using it or playing it to such an extent that not doing so leaves you feeling cranky or nervous, and you are becoming disinterested in other areas of life.
Some experts believe World of Warcraft can be "addictive". Here's a way to break your WoW "addiction."

Steps


  1. Admit you have a problem. This may be hard, but accepting that Warcraft has taken over your life is the initial step into overcoming your addiction.
  2. Consider the following: Imagine the day that you first bought the game. If you knew everything you do now, would you still have bought it? Now the follow up question: Imagine yourself in two years, still playing WoW, looking back on today when you are making the decision to quit or keep playing. How do you feel about your decision to continue?
  3. Find out what has caused your addiction. What makes World of Warcraft so appealing to you? Is it the fact that it has different continents that you will never go to? Is it the fighting? Is it your "unique" role as a tank or a mage? Is it the happiness of 'pwning noobs'? Whatever it is, try to minimize this happiness in WoW, and make it a pleasure that you could also get in every day life.
    • Take a martial arts class. Kick some real ass. Crit in real life. Many gamers are very interested in the martial arts, but never study it. Take up some sort of martial art that is similar to your character in WoW. For example, if you use a sword in the game, then take up fencing, Kendo, or SCA fighting. Your sword skill goes up much faster in real life.
    • Read. Novels have just as much excitement and adventure as WoW, but you can expand other skills -- such as critical thinking and vocabulary -- in addition to those that interactive storytelling and game play will build. Try to equip gear that increases your reading ability (Such as monocles), this will increase your WPS (Words Per Second).
    • Play a less time consuming video game with all of the rewarding feelings of WoW.
    • Do live action RP (LARP), especially if you were from a RP server.

  4. Burn yourself out by finding the ways to cheat at World of Warcraft. Find a private server to play on, with ultra fast leveling/gold. Cheating through the entire game in an hour will get you burnt out very, very quickly. #Make it a joint effort. Believe it or not, many people play World of Warcraft simply because their friends play it, and they find it enjoyable to spend time with them in WoW. If this is the case, then convince your friends to stop playing (with these steps, if needed), or even better, find another game to play. Otherwise, explain to your friends and family what you're doing, and ask them to help you stay on track. When you can't trust yourself to keep away from WoW, you have to trust someone else to stop you.
  5. Set up parental controls for yourself. Make it so your play-time is limited, and use a complicated password that you are sure to quickly forget. Or, ask a friend or family member to set the parental controls with a password you don't know.
  6. Schedule other activities with your free time, so you won't have time to play WoW. One of the most effective way is to get a part time job and book every free time you have to work. Hang out with your friends, play basketball, engage in extra curricular activities at school (such as clubs or sport teams) or volunteer. The important thing is that they keep you outside of your home, away from your computer. You can find that there are many things that are just as exciting as playing WoW. Remember, your "guild" online is no substitute for the company of real friends.
  7. Give away your bags and gold (don't mail them to an alt) and delete your character.
  8. Sell your account. There are many players and lazy people out there, willing to pay for an existing account. This is a great way to stop playing, because then someone else takes your character, and you won't be able to control it any longer. This is a nice way to quit, but not stop addiction.
  9. Beat the game. When all else fails, play until you reach the highest level possible. Many players get to the maximum level (at least until Blizzard releases another add-on pack) then look back and realize with disappointment that they've been following what is known by many gamers as the 'role-playing game grind', or the extremely repetitive and ultimately fruitless efforts of gaining gold, levels, and experience. Because when it's all said and done, a dead man's possessions are not important; it's the memories that count. So go out and make your own, now, in the real world.
  10. Do activities that are productive in the real world but allow you to have the same satisfaction of leveling up like getting fit, learning to cook, succeeding in school courses. Get your artisan cooking level, first aid, and fishing skills up in real life. Maybe you can find something useful to do. Also, try smokes almonds. Next time you wanna play a paladin, try some almonds. Not the sugar free almonds, but normal ones. your a winner!


Video


In this video, you will see what it takes to set yourself free of this highly addictive game.

Tips


  • Addictions to video games trigger brain activity similar to any other addiction. So don't be surprised if breaking the addiction seems difficult at first.
  • People play games because they seem to find reality is less interesting, in reality, there are many more constructive things to do. Find ways to make reality more interesting, that will help.
  • Evaluate yourself to see if you are using your "WoW" addiction to escape problems in your life. If you have problems at work, see about improving your education (to get a better job). If you have family problems, see about improving your relationship with them.
  • You can also find support online. There are support groups on Yahoo and Google Groups, and the WoW forums can sate your desire to see what you're "missing" as you quit.
  • Track the amount of time that you spend playing WoW. Associate a dollar value with that time, for example: 6 hrs/day * 7 days = 42 hours. 42 * $7.0 = $294.00 per week. You can see that your time IS money, and even working a job for minimum wage is a better use of your time.
  • Get a stopwatch and measure how much time you spend waiting in the game (for guild members, flight paths, long walks, etc.) and compare it to the overall time played. You may find that close to half, or even a majority of your time is spent doing effectively nothing.
  • Calculate how much of your time you spend doing nothing each month against your monthly subscription fee, and see how much money you're throwing away.
  • If you use a router, block the port WoW uses to connect. This disables your connectivity to the WoW servers. You can also block this port with Windows Firewall or other firewall software, such as ZoneAlarm. You can find this port in Blizzard's knowledge base for WoW
  • Remember that all of your accolades and achievements in WoW are virtual and do little for you in real life. While your virtual life is blossoming, your personal life could be deteriorating. If so, that is reason enough to stop playing.
  • Realize that you can always go back to playing WOW when you are old or disabled, which is probably in a few decades when WoW will be rotting in video game history. Right now there are better things to do. Ride a motorcycle, run away to Australia, date, have children, things you can do only when you are young. When you are old you can play guilt free. Also, by that time gaming will be a lot better and extension packs will be cheap. Blizzard is not going anywhere.
  • See a professional psychologist to discuss your addiction. Get help.


Warnings


  • Your payments continue even after you smash everything. Don't forget to unsubscribe.
  • If you find yourself opening a new account even after following these steps, you should seek professional counseling for your addiction.

Friday, March 20, 2009

long over due





i had ben and kira's kids over a while back and i took really cute pics so here they are

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

GOOD BYE!!!!!!!!!



We had to say farwell to our doggie, shadow today..
we think it was irratating CJ allergy problems.. and because he is so prone to getting ear infections and just being sick over all, we decided, along with the fact that we dont have anywhere for him to run, to get rid of him. he was a really sweet dog we just simply didnt have the room for him.. i am going to miss him.. as is CJ! he loved to play with him! lol and beat him up.. hopefully we are going to see improvements in CJ's health but we are truly going to miss you shadow!!

Monday, March 16, 2009

really cool!!!! 2 of the apostles sat down with an ABC news reporter! really really cool .. go watch it!!!







http://abcnews.go.com/Video/playerIndex?id=6616644

Saturday, March 7, 2009

more birthdays!!! lol

HAPPY BIRTHDAY CHRISTOPHER!!!!!!!

yesterday chris turned 22! he had a pretty good day. although he had to work, i had a really good dinner waiting at home for him.. that always makes him happy.
we had conestoga!!!!! i love love love conestoga lol. and so does he! he had a 12 oz ribeye with fries, extra fries and rolls! and CJ picked out the carrot cake we got for him! he was very suprised. but the best thing is that he had NO idea what his real present is and that is just great cause he is trying to find it out but we are talking lol but he will love it!!!!

birthdays

HAPPY BIRTHDAY BEN!!!!!

Monday, March 2, 2009

mommy day!

today is my mommie's birthday .. and i have absolutely no idea how old she is and i think she wants it that way! lol I love my mother dearly and i am so very glad that i have come to be closer to her in the last few years of my life! she is a wonderful woman one that i look up too. she has the best advice. she is always there when i need her to console and and give me advice. i love her , i love her, i love her enough said!!!!

happy birthday mommie

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

fireproof

we recently watched the movie Fire Proof with curt Cameron ( you know the teenage boy that used to be on that one show) lol anyway! we really enjoyed it .. and i am actually thinking about doing the love dare just because it looks like it might be fun as well as benificial to our marriage, which is a win win. anyway if you haven't seen, you should! it reminds you of how much you need our saviors love to love anyone or anything else! and that you can't truly know what love means untill you understand how much our savior loves you!

they also have a website
http://www.fireproofyourmarriage.com

anyways that is all for today because i have a very bad headache but for some reason i just keep thinking that i should share this with people... ??

Saturday, February 21, 2009

STORMY DAY




Happy Birthday to you!
happy birthday to you!
you live in a zoo
you smell like a monkey
and you look like one too!!

happy birthday sista!!
thank you for always being there when i need you, for always listening to my problems. no matter how far apart we are and no matter how old we may get, we will always be BEST FRIENDS!!!!
I love you storms!!!

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

only my child!

so I was in Wallace today picking up my pell-grant check and CJ was with me. He has been with me before and is usually no problem. well he was being pretty good just playing right beside me. I dropped my phone and turned around to get it, and in that thirty seconds or so he ran.
Where did he run to? the other side of the was to PULL THE FIRE ALARM! as it sounds CJ comes running to me, the windows that we were standing in line for had a metal thing that came down so we would have to wait some more! everyone started comming out of the rooms and a teacher said everyone please make a single file line and get out of the building .. when i had to say ... i am sorry everyone it was my child.. the firemen came and everything well i only saw one.. but you get the idea. i was so imbarresed. we had to wait like an extra 10 min. for people to come unlock the metal things. then when it opened they pushed me to the front of the line. lol i was definately imbarrising but really really funny at the same time!

Sunday, January 18, 2009

Husband tag




Husband Tag



chris's 5 Favorite things that he loves:
1. Me 
2. CJ
3. World of Warcraft
4. Ice Cream
5. Whole Milk


5 Things on His T0-do list
1. level his mining on WOW
2. Clean the Second Bedroom
3.Go to School
4. Play with CJ
5. get hardwood flooring

5 Snacks he loves
1. ice cream
2. saltine crackers with whole milk
3. chips
4. twizzlers
5.  popcorn


5 Facts you may not know
1.  He snores ssssoooo loud
2. he hates if you smack when you eat
3. He listens to mostly bands that are over seas
4.  He actually can cook better than I can..... he is just to lazy lol
5.  He wears a size 15 shoe

5 Places he has lived
1.  His mothers house
2.  Germany
3. north carolina
4.  the apartment at wellington place
5.  our house!

5 Quirky things about him
1.  He gets the ice cream out of the carton with a knife .. even if though we have an ice cream scoop
2.  he is an extremely picky eater
3. He doesn't like spaghetti in a bowl
4.  He has really large toe nails that grow like instantly
5. He always rolls up his long sleeves, except for Sunday when he's wearing a white long-sleeved shirt to church.

5 People I Tag
1. storms
2. kira
3. kimberly
4. felica
5. mia

Friday, January 2, 2009