I’m so thankful for her and for the conversation we had yesterday about the psalms; thankful that this one touched her heart enough for her to hang it up where she’ll see it every day.
wave hello again.
Monday, August 24, 2026
A psalm
I’m so thankful for her and for the conversation we had yesterday about the psalms; thankful that this one touched her heart enough for her to hang it up where she’ll see it every day.
Monday, December 01, 2025
Thanks for the swim teams
Aren't they cute? lol. I made my kids pose for the professional swim team photos last summer because it was the last time they'd all be on the team together.
I've been reading the nonfiction book Young Woman and the Sea for book club (recommend!) about Trudy Ederle, the first woman to swim across the English Channel, and her experience growing up in a world where women weren't allowed to swim competitively. It's made me extra grateful for the opportunity all of my kids have had to learn to swim and to be part of a team doing it.
Polly in particular has taken to swimming, and she has continued to swim year round this year for the first time. It's a sacrifice, but she loves it, and happily goes to practice twice a week, and she's keeping her skills up, and I think it will pay dividends next summer when she ages up and has to swim 50s in butterfly instead of 25s (something she's been nervous about).
Plus lifeguarding has been a great summer job for my older kids.
So thankful for the swim team and for all my kids' swim instructors who have made swimming such a big and rewarding part of our family life.
Friday, November 28, 2025
Thanks for Polly
Oh this little thief of my heart. I am so grateful for our caboose who came to complete our family and fill up the house with giggles. Polly is funny, silly, affectionate, and kind; she swims a mean butterfly; she makes friends wherever she goes; and she made the sweet potato casserole all by herself for Thanksgiving. Hooray for Polly!
Thursday, November 27, 2025
Thanks for Lars
Matt's description of Lars as a "loose nerve ending" (I think he first said this when Lars was like 3 or 4) has continued to be accurate. He's full of energy and sometimes literally bounces off the walls. He gets his energy out by talking, asking questions, running around, running up and down stairs, wrestling, hiding and scaring people. Oddly enough, he is also super-focused when it comes to household chores and he is my most dependable worker around the house. He is a whirlwind and I couldn't be more grateful.
Wednesday, November 26, 2025
Thanks for Ida
Tuesday, November 25, 2025
Thanks for Theo
This cute boy is home for Thanksgiving. I love him SO much. When I saw him on Saturday morning he gave me the biggest strongest hug--he's definitely the best hugger out of all my kids! I am so thankful for everything Theo has taught me, everything he continues to teach me, I'm thankful for his goofy sense of humor and his love for sports and for BYU, and I'm especially thankful that he's having such a great start to his freshman year. What a guy.
Monday, November 24, 2025
Thanks for Harry
That's my brother Harry next to me at our nephew's wedding. Do you know what it's like to have a brother who's 10+ years older than you? In my eyes, Harry was always the coolest guy, who had things like a boa constrictor in a glass tank in his room, and purple suede Doc Martens. He left for college when I was only 7. Then he lived with us again briefly when I was in high school before he got married, and I used to raid his CDs for my mixtapes (thanks to him for my love of funk in particular, but also Harry Connick Jr., Madonna, Depeche Mode, and George Michael) and spray his cKone cologne on myself when he wasn't home.
He taught me how to drive uphill in his stick-shift truck. He made a sign for the window that said "SHAQ FOR PRESIDENT" when the Lakers were in the finals. When I was a senior in college he came to BYU for one semester to finish his degree and we took 2 classes together. I am so thankful for this cool older brother who I know loves me and who still teaches me stuff.
Sunday, November 23, 2025
Thanks for Noah
My "little brother" is obviously bigger than me now and has been for some time. I am thankful for Noah's insights, the connections he makes, the things he notices that no one else notices. He has always been sensitive and funny and musical and super smart. Thankful for Noah!
Saturday, November 22, 2025
Thanks for Hannah
Sister number three!
This lady is my BFF, my roommate for more years than anyone but Matt, my queen of inside jokes, my confidant and my fashion icon. Love Hannah and so thankful for her.
Friday, November 21, 2025
Thanks for Matt
I'm not sure how this photo ended up on my computer but I am here for it!
Today on Matt's birthday I am so thankful for the man I married. 22 years later, best decision I ever made. and I'm not afraid to say it's the best decision he ever made too...
Thursday, November 20, 2025
Thanks for Phoebe
This is a much older picture but I just like it!
My sister Phoebe knows exactly how to make things more beautiful, more fun, more of whatever they need to be. And this is also a good picture for this post because she always makes me laugh. I'm thankful for Phoebe!
Tuesday, November 18, 2025
Thanks for Bonny
Swiping through my photos and I found this darling one of my sister Bonny. I'm so thankful for Bonny. She is the ultimate oldest sister, always making sure everyone is comfortable, always setting an example, always offering a warm welcome to newcomers. I want to be like Bonny when I grow up.
Monday, November 17, 2025
Thanks for the fire
OK I figured out how to post photos from my computer... so maybe I'll start doing that again!
This fall I am super grateful for my fireplace. (No, it's not a pizza oven, despite its appearance) We tried using it the first year we lived here and the house got smoky inside so that was a no-go. We had a couple of inspections and realized we needed to completely re-line it and also do exterior work on the chimney. Saved up for that and two years later, voila, we have a working fireplace! I love building fires and I love the smell of woodsmoke and I love the snap-crackle-pop of an active fire. I think this guy will get a lot of use from our family.
Saturday, November 15, 2025
Thanks for sleep
Sleep is harder for me than it used to be. I can still sleep like a rock if given the opportunity, but I rarely get the opportunity. Dog barking, kids' alarms going off, my air purifier going on the fritz and beeping like it's lost its mind... then there's all that middle-age hormone stuff that sometimes pops in completely uninvited and wakes me up when it has no business to.
BUT last night, the fates converged and I slept until almost 9 am. Whew!
To be very fair, it's also thanks in part to Polly and Matt, who were both already up and dealing with the dog. And it's Saturday, so no alarms. Ida and Lars are both still fast asleep, bless them and their teenage brains.
Thursday, November 13, 2025
Thanks for the teachers
I chaperoned Polly’s field trip today and I am ex-haus-ted. It was fun to chat with other parents though as well as her delightful teachers. Gosh, how many teachers have taken care of my kids over the years? I’m going to do some math and figure that out. Thank you, teachers!!!
Edit:
This is not counting church, seminary, piano, voice etc. teachers. That would probably be another 50+…
They each went to 2 years of preschool with about 4 teachers each = 8
3 of them went to 7 years of elementary school with 2 teachers each year (I’m counting IAs, but many classes did have 2 fully licensed teachers) plus PE, music, band, art, and STEAM teachers; and Polly has been there 6 years.
3 of them went to 2 years of middle school with 6-10 teachers each year (10 for Theo, 6 for the others)
High school, 6-10 teachers each year (10 for Theo, 6 for the others); 4 years for Theo, 3 for Ida, 1 for Lars
It’s been a minute since I had to do real math but that is APPROXIMATELY 100 unique teachers who have helped my kids in school since we started Theo in preschool in ~2010.
That’s allowing for some repeats. It might be more like 60, if I really sit down and figure out which teachers had more than one of my kids. (I adjusted for this with the elementary specials teachers.) Approximately 60-100 unique teachers plus a whole bunch of the church and music variety. BLESS THEM ALL.
Wednesday, November 12, 2025
Thanks for the plumber
Our hot water started acting weird back in like August. It would sometimes get hot and sometimes stay lukewarm. An appliance guy looked at the water heater, then a plumber, then another plumber, then my dad when he was here visiting. It seemed to stump everyone and so we got a couple of quotes to replace the entire heater (not cheap) but then something the second plumber had said about a shower cartridge stuck in the back of my mind. I experimented a little with the flow of the hot water and reached out to that second plumber (who had given me his cell phone number in case I had questions) to see if he could come back and investigate some more. This is becoming an unreasonably long story but suffice it to say that he did come back (twice actually), and he did solve the problem, and he did save us over 5 grand in the process. Bless you, Mike the Plumber!
Tuesday, November 11, 2025
Thanks for the veterans
Monday, November 10, 2025
Thanks for the day off
Sunday, November 09, 2025
Thanks for the day of rest
I was so tired today. I went to bed way too late and woke up too early. But this afternoon after church, I changed into sweats and hung out at home, took an accidental nap, played a game with my family. Most Sundays are actually a tiny bit busy, but I was able to take a rest today, and I really needed it.
Saturday, November 08, 2025
Thanks for November weather
Sunny blue November skies and pinky orange purple November sunsets can’t be beat… and the weather has been extra nice this November. Throw in the supermoon this week and you’ve got yourself a stew!
Friday, November 07, 2025
Thanks for the TVs
I am going to set an alarm in my phone to write these because otherwise I will keep forgetting!
Ok today’s thanks is for something kind of funny. (To me.) I grew up in a house with one TV that was rarely on. I have never been a big TV-watcher and don’t get excited about it. However, over the years I have somehow been convinced that having more TVs would be a good idea. So we currently have 3 TVs in the house plus a projector on the back porch. 😂
And guess what? I kind of love it. I still rarely watch them, but when I do, it’s almost always with Matt or with the kids or with the whole family and we’re doing that together instead of being on separate screens. So yes! I am thankful for all the TVs!
(And when you read that in your head, please pronounce it TEE-vees instead of tee-VEES… just for fun)
Wednesday, November 05, 2025
Thanks for the life
Busy day today, lots going on at work and at home and at school and at church and anywhere we are involved there’s lots going on. I complain sometimes when everything collides at once but you know what… most of the time, I love it. So satisfying to fill up our lives with good things and I’m grateful for every opportunity to learn something, earn something, do something.
Tuesday, November 04, 2025
Thanks for the vote
I wonder if I am extra thankful for my vote because every November I write about how thankful I am for it? 🤔 Regardless… there is something soothing about the changes that come around each fall that are ideally reflective of the will of the people. From the state senator to the county comptroller: however they got to the ballot, they made it across the finish line because enough people decided that’s what they wanted. May it ever be so.
Monday, November 03, 2025
Thanks for the quilts
Of all the posts not to have a photo! I really need to figure that out.
I saw my SIL Deb yesterday and she gave me a gorgeous quilt she had made just for me with an autumnal theme in honor of Thanksblogging. I told her that would be my post for the day! Of course then I didn’t post yesterday so here’s the makeup post.
I will add photos if I figure out how, but for now you will have to imagine the beautiful quilts that I have in my home, many made by Deb, and several made by my mom, and a few others made by friends. And two (!) made by me. :)
Quilts are such a rad form of functional and cozy art. So thankful for them and for the quilters who quilt them!
Saturday, November 01, 2025
Thanks for the love
Welcome back to Thanksblogging!!
I’ve been taking a human development class (long story short, I am trying to get a teaching certificate) and the most recent lessons have been about attachment theory in young children and how secure attachments to a loving caregiver have a lifelong impact on kids. One longitudinal study even showed a 50% difference in heart problems among adults who had once been securely versus insecurely attached kids.
I’m so grateful for early strong attachments to my parents and for the gift of providing that to my own kids. Honestly probably the best gift of my life, other than the gift of life itself, that my parents offered freely to me and that I was able to give to my kids. I feel so so grateful.
Monday, October 27, 2025
#3 in the bag
Did I mention the blogging app I used doesn’t work anymore? Rude. I have to use a regular browser and that’s annoying.
I ran my third marathon yesterday, and I feel good about it. I’d feel better if it had been a PR (it was 1 minute longer than my fastest marathon time) but that just gives me something to shoot for next time.. right?
This quote from a WTOP article about the race made me laugh… because it’s so true…
Tyler Stratton was running with Federico and said they decided to cut holes in trash bags and wear them to keep warm. They’re both active duty Marines.
“We woke up at four in the morning to run 26 miles in trash bags so we’re feeling good,” he said.
Wednesday, October 22, 2025
Stayin’ alive (BeeGees voice)
I remember when my newborns were learning how to live life on the outside, and I’d have a small window of time during the day where I decided whether sleeping or eating was more important. More often than not I’d stare into the fridge, grab whatever I could see and choke it down (a handful of deli meat? a couple squirts of whipped cream straight from the can? the only standard was “fast”), then go collapse on my bed, crashing hard into REM, until the baby woke up.
I had similar experiences in early pregnancy when food sounded like the worst option but I knew I had to eat, so I’d force-feed myself a hard-boiled egg before falling asleep sitting up at the table.
Thursday, September 11, 2025
September morn
(SpongeBob voice) Three - months - later…
Don’t worry, I’m an elder millennial librarian who only knows that reference from social media context clues, so I googled it, and now I know that the voice is technically Frenchy, aka SpongeBob’s French Narrator who lives in a submarine.
Anywho, it’s September now. Theo went to college, Lars and Ida are both in high school, Polly is in fifth grade and somehow now has homework every night. It’s strange and lovely to witness them grow up like this.
Raffi is on the naughty list, so don’t ask.
I feel called to write more and post less, and yet am I actually writing more? Not really. Posting less, yes. Maybe I’ll sit down and write something one of these days. But life keeps life-ing, so I’m sometimes posting, rarely writing, always moving, always thinking.
Sunday, June 08, 2025
Busy getting dizzy
We have more visitors next month, and then we are going to California (and Utah) AGAIN a few weeks after that.
My cup runneth over.
Friday, March 07, 2025
Polly quotes
Monday, March 03, 2025
To the left, to the right
Thursday, February 27, 2025
You keep using that word
Image by Micah Player
Today I have been thinking about two of my most memorable college classes: Communications Theory and History of Civilizations.
Comms theory was particularly memorable because I had to retake it after getting a D the first time (my freshman year was rough, OK! I had to retake a few classes...).
I specifically remember learning about semiotics, or the study of signs/symbols and their interpretations. An American flag, a Star of David, a traffic light, a dove, a thermometer... etc. etc., they are at once an image and a multilayered statement. Anyway. That class was also when I learned the word "paradigm."
(I remember asking the TA, "You keep using that word... what in the world does it mean??")
History of Civ was a two-parter, and I really loved part two (1500-present), where the professor used various novels, films, and nonfiction books as our texts. One of the texts was the book Imagined Communities, a book by Benedict Anderson that explores nationalism as a... you guessed it... community that exists in our imagination, a social construct.
I saw the above image today posted by one of my favorite illustrators, Micah Player, and immediately my thoughts turned back to those two classes. Ever since I was very young, and certainly when I was my most fresh-faced and optimistic as a college-age kid, the Statue of Liberty has communicated layers of meaning to me about justice, bravery, opportunity, First Amendment freedoms... maybe even our friends the French. ;) And another layer I learned about in college: Emma Lazarus’s poem that’s engraved inside the statue’s pedestal, “The New Colossus.”
Ultimately all of those concepts together form a three-dimensional image that, perhaps next to the American flag and maybe fireworks (runner up: bald eagle), is the most iconic, most recognizable symbol of modern democracy modern democratic constitutional republic that I can think of.
It hadn't particularly occurred to me that it might mean something else to other Americans, something more exclusive, something more narrow... like, concentrated presidential power or white Christian nationalism or isolationism or the prosperity gospel or “curated” opinion sections in a national newspaper.
But “America” can mean whatever anyone wants it to mean.
I just really don't think it means what those people think it means.
Saturday, February 22, 2025
News
Thursday, January 30, 2025
Still sick
Monday, January 20, 2025
Wellness
Photo unrelated, except to document that this was my Disneyland souvenir this year (usually I get a magnet 🤷🏼♀️) and now I’m going to force myself to get out of bed and drink some tea out of it.
Thursday, January 09, 2025
You know what’s weird
Tuesday, December 31, 2024
To all who come to this happy place… welcome.
Thursday, December 05, 2024
Thanks for Ida
I missed several days in November (although not as many as last year!) so we’ll just keep the fun going for a little bit.
Saturday, November 30, 2024
Thanks for the doll hospital
Friday, November 29, 2024
Thanks for the sleep
Wednesday, November 27, 2024
Thanks for Theo
Tuesday, November 26, 2024
Thanks for the road trips
Sunday, November 24, 2024
Thanks for the little things
Behold, my current collection of Christmas wrapping paper. Is it over the top? perhaps, but I just really like Christmas wrapping paper, and I have a hard time resisting when I see some that I love. It doesn’t look like much when it’s all shoved in my storage room, but it makes me happy to think of it wrapped around boxes under the tree.
Saturday, November 23, 2024
Thanks for Lars
Lars truly drives me insane sometimes… like daily… with his teasing and his nervous energy. But he is also so great. Just a little loose nerve ending (as Matt calls him) who channels that power into doing stuff like running the fastest mile in the school.
Friday, November 22, 2024
Thanks for November
Wednesday, November 20, 2024
Thanks for my job
I’ve been working on a project at work that requires the use of these little “Not Ready” signs. It feels very relevant to my life in general. 😆
Thanks for my dog
I opened my heart up to this dog a little over a year ago, and he drives me loco crazy 80% of the time, but I would absolutely do it again. Thanks, Raffi!
Tuesday, November 19, 2024
Thanks for the Duo
Friday, November 15, 2024
Thanks for the running clubs
I’m thankful for my kids’ running programs. I signed them up for cross country back in 2019 when the older kids’ soccer teams reorganized and I needed something they could all do together. It clicked, and we kept going back.











