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Compassion

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Compassion is empathic or emotional understanding of the suffering and emotions of others. It is regarded as a fundamental aspect of human love, a cornerstone of social interconnection and humanism, and foundational to the highest principles of ethical philosophy, society, and personhood.

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Compassion and tolerance are not a sign of weakness, but a sign of strength. ~ Tenzin Gyatso, 14th Dalai Lama
Arrest each unloving thought; stamp out each critical action, and teach yourself to love all beings - not in theory but in deed and in truth. ~ Alice Bailey
When death, the great Reconciler, has come, it is never our tenderness that we repent of, but our severity. ~ George Eliot
The highest forms of understanding we can achieve are laughter and human compassion. ~ Richard Feynman
Treat people as if they were what they ought to be and you help them to become what they are capable of being. ~ Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
Compassion is probably the only antitoxin of the soul. Where there is compassion even the most poisonous impulses remain relatively harmless. ~ Eric Hoffer
The whole idea of compassion is based on a keen awareness of the interdependence of all these living beings, which are all part of one another, and all involved in one another. ~ Thomas Merton
In what way does the love of God remain in him? Little children, we should love, not in word or with the tongue, but in deed and truth. ~ John the Evangelist

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  • Oh! while we would have our young sisters imitate, as they cannot fail to love, the conduct of Ruth, will not their elders do well to ponder on, and imitate, the tenderness of Naomi? […] Would we have our daughters Ruths, we must be Naomis.
    • Grace Aguilar, The Women of Israel (London: R. Groombridge and Sons, 1845), Vol. I, pp. 356, 358.

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  • Arrest each unloving thought; stamp out each critical action, and teach yourself to love all beings - not in theory but in deed and in truth.
  • Compassion will cure more sins than condemnation.
    • Henry Ward Beecher, Life Thoughts, ed. Edna Dean Proctor (Boston: Phillips, Sampson and Company, 1858), p. 294
  • Impassibilis est Deus, sed non incompassibilis.
  • Because They had reached this level and mounted even higher, the great Founders of religions have ever been marked by Their overwelling compassion and tenderness, ministering to the physical as well as to the inner wants of men, to every man according to his need. p.173
  • Let a soul radiate in every direction love and compassion, and thoughts of hatred can find nothing to which they can attach themselves. p. 273

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  • Never apologize for showing feeling, my friend. Remember that when you do so, you apologize for truth.
    • Benjamin Disraeli, Contarini Fleming : A Psychological Autobiography (1832), p. 45; sometimes paraphrased: "Never apologize for showing feeling. When you do so, you apologize for the truth."

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  • A human being is a part of the whole, called by us “Universe,’ a part limited in time and space. He experiences himself, his thoughts and feelings as something separated from the rest — a kind of optical delusion of his consciousness. This delusion is a kind of prison for us, restricting us to our personal desires and to affection for a few persons nearest to us. Our task must be to free ourselves from this prison by widening our circle of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole nature in its beauty.
    • Albert Einstein in Condolence letter to Norman Salit, (4 March 1950); also quoted in "The Einstein Papers. A Man of Many Parts" in The New York Times (29 March 1972)

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  • I have very strongly of late the wish that others may be as sensitive as myself and the fear that they will not be. Colleague Sir Frank Adcock stumped by the sunset-portent unheeding. And I can't arge that I gain, or that others would gain, anything for humanity by observing and recording what went on for a few moments in the sky on Boar Race evening. I sometimes pretend to myself that I am public-spirited. I am not. I am an hedonist who wants pleasant sensations. On the other hand I am not the usual type of hedonist, for I want sensations to be had – if not by myself, then by someone else. The show shouldn't end with my death, which becomes a minor boo-hoo.

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  • From my own limited experience I have found that the greatest degree of inner tranquility comes from the development of love and compassion. The more we care for the happiness of others, the greater our own sense of well-being becomes. Cultivating a close, warm-hearted feeling for others automatically puts the mind at ease. This helps remove whatever fears or insecurities we may have and gives us the strength to cope with any obstacles we encounter. It is the ultimate source of success in life.
  • Ultimately, the reason why love and compassion bring the greatest happiness is simply that our nature cherishes them above all else. The need for love lies at the very foundation of human existence. It results from the profound interdependence we all share with one another.
  • I believe that at every level of society - familial, tribal, national and international - the key to a happier and more successful world is the growth of compassion. We do not need to become religious, nor do we need to believe in an ideology. All that is necessary is for each of us to develop our good human qualities. I try to treat whoever I meet as an old friend. This gives me a genuine feeling of happiness. It is the practice of compassion
  • Treat people as if they were what they ought to be and you help them to become what they are capable of being.
  • Krishna asserts that generosity (dana) and compassion (daya) are qualities that arise 'from me alone'.
    • Baghavad Gita, cited in Rajiv Malhotra: Indra's Net. p. 183

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  • A religious man is a person … whose greatest passion is compassion.
  • Compassion is probably the only antitoxin of the soul. Where there is compassion even the most poisonous impulses remain relatively harmless. One would rather see the world run by men who set their hearts on toys but are accessible to pity, than by men animated by lofty ideals whose dedication makes them ruthless. In the chemistry of man's soul, almost all noble attributes — courage, honor, hope, faith, duty, loyalty, etc. — can be transmuted into ruthlessness. Compassion alone stands apart from the continuous traffic between good and evil proceeding within us.
    • Eric Hoffer, The Passionate State Of Mind, and Other Aphorisms (1955), section 139.
  • IT IS compassion rather than the principle of justice which can guard us against being unjust to our fellow men.
    • Eric Hoffer, The Passionate Sate of Mind and Other Aphorisms (1955), section 140.
  • Men are only great as they are kind.
    • Published as a "Roycroft Motto" in Little Journeys to the Homes of Great Musicians (1901) by Elbert Hubbard, p. 105

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  • ‘It is the heart’s burning for the sake of the entire creation, for men, for birds, for animals, for demons, and for every created thing; and at the recollection and sight of them, the eyes of a merciful man pour forth abundant tears. From the strong and vehement mercy that grips his heart and from his great compassion, his heart is humbled and he cannot bear to hear or to see any injury or slight sorrow in creation. For this reason he offers up prayers with tears continually even for irrational beasts, for the enemies of the truth, and for those who harm him, that they be protected and receive mercy. And in like manner he even prays for the family of reptiles, because of the great compassion that burns without measure in his heart in the likeness of God.’
    • Isaac of Nineveh, Homily 71 in The Ascetical Homilies of Saint Isaac the Syrian, second edition (2011), published by the Holy Transfiguration Monastery, Brookline, MA. p. 491.

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  • I will show mercy to whomever I will show mercy, and I will show compassion to whomever I will show compassion.

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Compassion. That's the one thing no machine ever had. Maybe it's the one thing that keeps men ahead of them. ~ Leonard McCoy
  • We have no compassion and we ask no compassion from you. When our turn comes, we shall not make excuses for the terror.
    • Karl Marx, Suppression of the Neue Rheinische Zeitung, Neue Rheinische Zeitung No. 301, May 1849
  • The whole idea of compassion is based on a keen awareness of the interdependence of all these living beings, which are all part of one another, and all involved in one another.
    • Thomas Merton, in his final address, during a conference on East-West monastic dialogue, delivered just two hours before his death (10 December 1968), quoted in Religious Education, Vol. 73 (1978), p. 292.
  • Compassion in the highest degree is the divinest form of religion.
    • Alice Meynell, "Introductory Note" to The Poetry of Pathos & Delight: From the Works of Coventry Patmore; Passages Selected by Alice Meynell (London: William Heinemann, 1906), p. xi.

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  • Intense suffering may be a private, internal phenomenon, often hidden from the gaze or awareness of others, but it is the most viscerally overwhelming experience there is, pleading desperately for relief. There is nothing else that has greater urgency than preventing or relieving intense suffering – of human beings and, indeed, of any sentient beings capable of suffering. It is the single most important goal of a compassionate society.
    • The Organisation for the Prevention of Intense Suffering (OPIS),